If you are the partner with a strength in an area and your partner has a weakness but does not appreciate your strength, that will eat away at you. If you have a strength and your partner appreciates it, you will be fine for some time but then one day it will get to you.

What’s ideal is that you learn your partners strength and while you are doing it, appreciate whatever efforts they make to do for you while you are learning to do for yourself.

Here’s what I have discovered:
1. The cause to error and delayed goals is too much curiosity and creativity. If an ADDer just focused on the task at hand rather than being curious about “what else there is” or “what could be” they would be more likely to be accurate and reach goals in a timely manner. Therefore the ADD brain is a “futuristic” brain in that it is always looking at “what’s next” but then getting overwhelmed by that since they know they have a hard time accomplishing things so instead of focusing on the task at hand, they may decide not to get much done at all therefore in some strange way “avoiding” what’s next. The remedy for this is planning; however, ADDers don’t like doing that. They tend to be freedom seeking people who like to live on the edge yet know the consequences of those actions are not very appealing at all and so goes a revolving cycle of hatred and self loathing of self and/or others.

2. An ADDer’s brain is quite rebellious. It’s as if there are two people in an ADDer’s head: One wants to do the right thing — to be displined and make the “right” choices and the other is a rebellious teenager wanting to do what he or she wants when she wants or else.

3. An ADDer has to choose strategies that work for their learning style and then they have to buy into those strategies. The best way of accomplishing that is to make an ADDer create their own strategies, ones that are fun, flexible, and enjoyable.

4. ADDers need a lot of professional support in addition to a loving partner or parent. Single or ignored ADDers are less likely to get help and are more likely to decline in mental health. Professional support includes Personal Organizers to get their home and office life in order, Life Coaches to keep their home and office life in balance, Financial Helpers to keep ADDers on track, making the most of what they got and out of legal trouble, and finally Cognitive Therapists to “retrain” the ADD brain to: 1. Discipline; 2. Strategize; 3. Structure; and 4. Socialize themselves successfully to their environment.

5. Many ADDers have similar physical mannerisms when they are having an “episode”. Yes, ADDers are not always 24/7 the way they are though some are. Anyway some ADDers yawn when they are bored; however, I have noticed the “exact” same type of yawn. Same goes with scratching and twitches. ADDers seem to move physically in the exact same way, similar to Down’s Syndrome people where their faces have similar features.

If something wrong was done or if they are being blamed, it’s best to become the lawyer and not the defendant and turn that judge into a plaintiff instead. This becomes a more positive experience for both parties and the initially defendant person can become an equal in the communication process rather then give up their power to the “judge”.

As a lawyer you can question the plaintiff and find out if there’s any truth to what they have to say. You do this by “examining” or “discovering” rather than “defending” which ultimately is unproductive and subjugates.

You and I will create new more manageable goals and take baby steps. As a “coach” type reader who combines the interpretation aspects of reading with the setting and achievement of goals we are able to get you having the successful life you want to lead.

Gain stress reduction, insight, guidance, objectivity, direction, achievement, confidence, understanding, and relaxation. Only $60 per month.

With an adviser, coach, consultant, intuitive, interpreter you can enhance your life, love, career, education, and/or business to levels you never thought possible.

$60 per month is minimal when you see increases in your income, relationship and career happiness, self-development, and more when nothing else is working. It’s as much as or less than the price of a haircut, beauty treatment, massage, and other services meant to comfort and enhance your well-being.

In just one session, you will feel GREAT *GUARANTEED* or your money back and you will notice over a short period of time how your life will turn around!

Don’t hesitate to take care of yourself or your financial well-being any longer.
Don’t wait for another day of regret, worry, or trouble.

You can find me at http://www.KnowTheWay.ca or http://www.JucyJasper.com to set up sessions.

What does that mean?
Generally speaking, working your skills in a professional manner indicates you want to make a living (part time or full time) from doing what you do. It also means studying your craft, having a code you work by, having expertise, and more responsibility. Responsibility is very key.

Definitions of “professional”: [url]http://www.google.ca/search?q=define%3A+professional&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a[/url] — if not, please remove with my apologies.

If we think of other “learned professionals” — doctors, lawyers, therapists, accountants — we can note that if they do work-for-free or less, it’s because the client can not afford their services and they want to help out. They generally don’t work entirely free for everyone. Instead of donations, it’s usually either entirely free or a sliding scale. Now if you are a “tip jar” kind of reader and it ends up netting you some real cash that’s financially supportive, I would say you have hooked on a great marketing and pricing technique that works for you so I wouldn’t change a thing. I go one step further in saying: Tell us your secret!!

Donations are generally geared to people who just love doing what they do irrespective of whether they get paid or not. It’s not something they do to make sure the bills get paid so they can accept “donations”. What comes to mind when I think donations? On-line software programs, a very cool web site, outdoor play in the summer or low key theatre, etc.. Often, what they offer of their own freewill (with no strings attached) may not be appreciated by the masses but they want to do it anyway. They usually do it and hope for the best financially but if they get nothing, it doesn’t bother them because they are doing it “for the love, not a living”.

Donations, in my opinion, can also “cheapen” and “devalue” the craft. The general public has a way with “well she did if for free or tips, why don’t you?” even though they can afford the services. *shrugs* I have come across this far too many times… human behaviour, I guess. If you can get it for nothing, then why not?!

Hobbyists (among other things) pay to enter shows and contests, get stuff for their interest, and rarely think about making money from it until enough people tell them to make money from it or they are extremely cash strapped and they are searching for what they can get paid for — then they begin to explore making money from their hobby.

We could say a professional pays for things like trade shows, nominations, etc.. too but it’s not the same thing because the outcome is usually not just to enjoy and potentially be recognized but to earn some future income from “expenses” incurred in offering their services and doing the/their best in their field.

It’s like people think the word “Hobbyist” is a dirty word or something and “Professional” is somehow Queen, it isn’t.

Professionals are usually held to a different set of standards from someone outside of themselves. I’m a CPTR, Certified Professional Tarot Reader and while on one hand I couldn’t care less about certification the other hand recognizes that I have been approved by my peers (whom I don’t know) who has said I’m a professional and therefore the general public may take me more seriously and feel more confident in my ability to read for them professionally.

Lawyers, doctors, psychiatrists, etc.. usually have government laws and certification process they have to go through. They can not practice until someone else has “approved” their ability, skill, and has sworn in their professional conduct. This is for the safety of the general public.

There are a lot of expenses, commitment, and responsibility to being a professional “anything” so I personally can’t understand why a reader would want to call themselves professional yet not care about earning a profit.

There are also a few meanings of the word “professional” so this is probably “another” reason why it gets all debatable. Behaving in a professional way has nothing to do with being a professional “anything”. One is based on social standards in business and the other is based on having a code, expertise, and focused on earning a profit from the skills and knowledge learned and studied (usually for the purpose of earning a future living but not always as is the case when one goes from hobbyist to professional as a perfectly marvelous and happy afterthought!).

Can someone who calls themselves professional but doesn’t care about profit give me some clue why that is? By many legal standards a professional is someone who is focused on earning a profit; a hobbyist does not focus on earring a profit. What do you think?

This is in response for asking for a deposit for “event entertainment” that uses one of our readers. We are a credible psychic event entertainment company that’s been in business since 2005, have tons of genuine testimonials with full names and business titles, but we still get questioned in a “you sound like a scam artist” when asking for a deposit. I can’t see a “regular” entertainment agency having this sort of problem.

“Sorry this is just out of sorts to me”

As mentioned before, what each of us does hurts or improves the work of our peers. Some may “not” believe that but I believe we are all connected and affect each other in profound ways.

Private readings and event readings are two different animals. Again, there would be those that differ.

Do you take a deposit for in-person readings? Event readings where you are booked in for the party? If you don’t take deposits, what’s the reasoning behind it? If you do take deposits, what’s the reasoning behind it?

When I need or want a response, what I do is ASK for one! I don’t wait until I feel disrespected and then negatively ASSume when someone didn’t get back to me. grrrrr

As far as weekends go, I have a life but not really… because weekends are all about work too for me but a different kind of work. And why bitch me out on a Monday about it? A traditionally busy and challenging day for people.

While I’m at it, why do people ASSume negative things then add a final judgement without checking if their assumption is true in the first place?? grrrrr It’s mind boggling.

For essential “time sensitive” correspondence or agreed upon turnaround time, I do get back to people within hours or 24-48 hours otherwise it can take some time because going back and forth with people (like text messaging but in emailing) doesn’t work for me when I have more than 25 people in a day to correspond with and that isn’t all I have to do. I need to earn a living and do not have a bevy of assistants at my call. grrrr

So, my question is: HOW MUCH TIME IS ACCEPTABLE TO GET BACK TO SOMEONE FOR A NON-SOLICITATED PIECE OF NON-ESSENTIAL EMAIL that has no time sensitivity.

In future I’m going to tell people IN ADVANCE that it could take 3 business days or more to return their message and if they want to follow up with me at their convenience (if there is a need or want) then they can do so at any time by the original method of contact but preferably by a second method of contact since the first might be the problem of non-communication in the first place (like their message when into spam or got deleted).

These negative thoughts, usually, are about other people or situations that one *feels* should have been — could have been — avoided. Also, it’s likely to be about not taking responsibility for one’s actions (blaming someone else) OR not expressing honest feelings. And because the feelings and thoughts are not expressed verbally, it turns into an accident.

As humans, we have a knack for expressing things no matter the conditions and these expressions come in different shapes and forms.

From a divination perspective, astrology tells us that an afflicted Mars, Aries, or Aries and Mars retrograde can also cause clumsiness or “accidents”.

My behaviours are confusing to people because on one hand I’m very businessy yet on the other, I’m people oriented. Since others don’t know how to assimilate that for themselves, distrust can occur.

Virgo South Node / Pisces North Node
A Virgo south node is of service but also critical and cold towards self and sometimes others. In a past life I was probably a doctor. In this vein, I was overcome by the ills and pains of others and detached myself (as an Aquarian might do) so that I could work on the “bodies” of the sick. People died while in my care. Feeling like I didn’t do enough to save them makes me a hyper vigilant person today. I can worry greatly and think I’m not doing enough. Virgo is the most air of all signs not of the actual element of air. A Pisces north node is compassionate and understanding. Pisces is humble and does not need or want to worry about perfection. Pisces is about possibilities, peace, and imagination.

In both Virgo and Capricorn I worry and have fear. Virgo is very minute and detail oriented and a perfectionist. Capricorn keeps doing, keeps going, even when it shouldn’t.

Capricorn Ascendant / Cancer Descendant
Virgo South Node / Pisces North Node

Aries in 3rd house!! Problem. Blunt. Straight Forward. My way or the highway.

I have a theory, I have many of them, that psychosis begins when emotional pain is long standing as if in a war zone and that there are landmines or rather “triggers” that set off emotional pain, that escalate into mental pain when unresolved or feelings of complete hopelessness ensues.

Sometimes the mental pain can lead to body pain. When body pain escalates too far, the mind may shut off or lock up without telling anyone that has happened. I believe most people that develop a psychosis have a naturally hardened appearance as if nothing gets to them. This causes people not to care for them as they are showcasing a strength that most do not have. When a person turns off their mind (and they really don’t have control over it — it’s a defense mechanism or automatic self-destruct) at that point it’s very difficult to find the key or combination lock (to bring the patient back) because the person / patient did not tell anyone that had happened. The mind was protecting the body from a perceived threat of death. Psychosis begins when a person / patient spends too long a time in a war zone (whether that be literal or figurative) without relief and mental resolution.

And to my knowledge, I do not have a psychosis but anyone can get it at anytime from what I state above. Aleister Crowley, intentionally “caused” a psychosis. 6 is the number of the man — the body. 666 is the beast — the body gone wild. 7 is the mental mind. 777 is the God-head.